Saturday, October 31, 2009

Some Hallowe'en Excitement!


Sonja's writing code!

I did computer coding all by myself!  I wanted to load these pics.  There were a lot. I have to resize them to put them on the blog and that's time consuming.  Richard usually resizes them in big batches for me in some slightly complicated manner.  After him teaching me again the other day, I actually remembered this time and was able to type the computery language myself.  It was very exciting.  To me.

Daddy's Coming Home!

Richard just couldn't bear (is that the right spelling?) to spend Hallowe'en alone and not see the boys in their costumes.  So, he's coming home in a couple hours to spend Hallowe'en night with us and sleep over!

Or, he really needs laundry done.

Or, he just really wants to drop off the car which he's realized he really doesn't need while he's there.

Or, he just wanted some 'kisses and hugs'.

Depending on how well or how badly he's feeling, the plan is that we'll head to my mom's and he'll hang out at the house while I take the boys out trick or treating.  I think Auntie Kim is coming out too.  And maybe Gram.  I'm not sure.

Today

We had a late start to the day today because my two boys slept in until 8:20am.  Thank goodness.  I've been pushing their day later and later to get ready for the time change.  Lunch today was super late at 12:45pm.  Dexter went down for nap at 1:30pm.  AJ's just having some 'quiet room time' right now and then I'll put him down to nap at 2pm and have some lunch, myself.  

After looking at Zellers for a comforter for Dexy this morning (to no avail) and then picking up my morning coffee, AJ asked if he and Dexter could play out in the front yard.  I really just wanted to get inside and get some dishes put away, but... twist my rubber arm... Okay, I'll sit on a adirondack chair sipping my morning coffee watching my two boys play outside in the fresh air.  Such torture.

Here's some playtime pictures.  I just love watching them play with figurines, so I had to sneak and get the camera.






















That's the day so far.

I'm off to disrupt AJ's 'quiet room time' to put him down for nap, then make a list of what I need to pack up for the boys tonight, eat my lunch, and put away some more laundry.


Friday, October 30, 2009

Hallowe'en Preparations and Missing Daddy


Missing Daddy

Yup, we miss them.  It's been a busy Hallowe'en week.  Richard will not be here for trick or treating, but we will go visit him on Sunday.

Richard's ben on anti-biotics for a couple days because he had a cough and some sniffles, of course, a fever.  They all freaked out and made him wear his mask.  They quarantined him in his room until they could be sure it wasn't H1N1.  As suspected, his diagnosis......

A common cold.

Poor guy was stuck in his room, except for going to the hospital.

He has updated his blog, so you can get official news there.





Hallowe'en is almost here!  And by the time you read this, it will probably be Hallowe'en day or the day after. 


This entry, as usual, is me jabbering on about nothing and everything.  You could really just look at the pics and you'll get the picture.  But if you love to listen to me go on and on about my daily drivel, then by all means, read on!

Monday

AJ and Makenna were supposed to wear their costumes for gymnastics.  Of course, it's pouring rain.  Jen was picking up her mom from the airport, so I was taking AJ and Makenna (with Dex) to gymnastics.  The gymnastics teacher had said that they were just going to wear their costumes for warm up.  So, I'm in the change room with the two kids (and Dexter waiting patiently in the umbrella stroller because otherwise he'll dart).  I'm helping AJ and Makenna get their costumes on and AJ starts saying, "Um, I don't want to wear my spider costume for gymnastics."  I'm telling him that everyone's wearing their costume and it's only for warm up.  He says, with his costume on and hiding behind me, "But I don't want anyone to see me in this!".  Where did that come from?  Anyway... with some casual light peeling of him off of my leg, I throw him to the wolves...err, ummm, I mean, send him to have fun.

They had fun.  But they wore them the whole time!  AJ was sweating like a madman.  All the kids looked really cute.  It was fun to see them swinging, rolling, and jumping on the trampoline in their costumes.

Tuesday

I had Erica's kids.  Didn't take too many pics.  To tell you the truth, for the life of me, I can't remember what I did this morning with the babies.  I think I went somewhere, but I can't remember where.  

Jen had her mom at her house to watch Emerson and Jaxon, so Jen was able to pick up the boys for me and drop them off at my place which was so great.  I wanted to fold some laundry and clean my room a bit which meant I didn't want Rya to sleep in my room.  Plus, I knew that Richard would be returning from getting his anti-fungals and would need a nap.  So, I decided to see if Rya and Dex would sleep together in Dex's big bed.  They seemed very keen on the idea, but when I closed the door, Dexter would stand up and start goofing off and then Rya would get up too.  So, I gave them the ultimatum:  Go to sleep, or I'm taking Rya out of here.  They goofed again, so I took Rya out and she slept in AJ's reading bed instead.  This worked fine because AJ and Jack were playing in the playroom for the whole time!  They played great too.  They wore every dress up hat down there.

Oh ya, and Jack fell down off a stool and cut his lip.  Oops, sorry Erica!  He was in denial about this cut and the blood too.  It was pretty stinkin adorable when I was cleaning him up and he was pointing at the blood I wiped off of his shirt and to his lip and saying, "This isn't from today.  This was all here yesterday.  This is the way God made me."



Wednesday

It was Auntie Kim's 'nanny day' while I was at work.  This time, Auntie Kim brought her friend Kareen, of whom, I oddly have no pictures.  The girls were ambitious and filled the boys' day with cuddles and cookie-baking.  Bright green icing. Bright black icing.  The boys are still pooping blue and green and it's Friday!

Bones, circles, and hands.  Yum.


That's right, Auntie Kim, you wash those dishes!




Thanks for tilting your head!  This time to the right!


Look at all those cookies!  Look at that mess!  And it was all clean when I got home.  And, dinner was waiting for me!  What a great nanny!






Thursday

Auntie Erica had the boys.  I was quite pleased that Auntie Erica was not going to be sending Jack to school in his costume, and rather, in a Hallowe'en t-shirt.  It meant I could give AJ the option of Hallowe'en t-shirt or costume.  He, of course, chose t-shirt.  So, he wore his skeleton t-shirt.

I used today to take the car in to get looked at.  There was a big puddle the past two days on my passenger side floor mat, my heat wasn't blowing, and there was still that squeaky noise coming from my passenger front wheel.  Luckily, and oddly, the problem was not too bad.  

The squeak was my hubcap = $0

The floor mat was wet from water getting through a gap in a plastic piece that sits on my windshield. = $ the cost of the silicone that Ken picked up for me

The heat was a problem with the pollen filter getting soaked from the leak = $28 for a new pollen filter.

I got my hair cut.  I picked up the boys.  I fed them dinner.  I packed them up.  I headed to my mom and Ken's so that Ken could fix my car.  He wet vac'd it.  He siliconed the plastic piece.  He sealed up a little hole.  And he replaced the filter.  

All fixed!

So thankful for these Thursdays that I don't work right now and Erica watches the boys.  It's nice to have a day to myself to get some errands done.  I imagine this week, I'll be using part of the day to grocery shop without having to drag the poor boys along.  It's so boring for them.  It makes me feel guilty.

Friday

The boys slept in nicely.  Which, in turn, meant a late start to the day. We didn't get out of the house until 10:30am.  We were off to the mall because I had an opportunity to buy Dexter's next size up of his shoes with my 50% off coupon for Payless from the Oprah site.  Nice!  Got his $30 shoes for $15.  And I used my $10 off coupon for the Gap to buy the boys winter mittens. 

After nap, and a couple errands, it was time to carve pumpkins.  I thought I'd take before pictures, assuming the boys would be getting super messy.  AJ had a medium sized pumpkin.  Dexter had a little baby one that was reminiscent of a little decorative gourd, but it was soft.  In fact, so soft, I feared it was rotten and not usable.

Before.

I cleaned out Dexter's mini pumpkin, but AJ wanted to clean out his pumpkin with me.


I wanted Dexter to draw on the pumpkin with markers and then I'd cut it out.  But he really wanted the knife.  (it's the can't-cut-your-skin-pumpkin-knife)




And, no drawing for this guy, just cut cut cut cut, saw saw saw saw saw.  30 minutes of cutting.  No training. Just a natural ability to massacre.


AJ did not, in fact, want to clean out the pumpkin with me.  He thought it was 'gross'. He was barely willing to touch the pumpkin.  I was hoping he would draw a face, but he wanted me to draw a 'scaredy cat'.  



We cut it out together.


Then I told him he could 'go to town' with the knife on the back of the pumpkin.  But again, he really didn't want to 'touch' the pumpkin.  So, he cut one hole and that's it.



Stabbing.


Poking.



Mmmmmm, pumpkin seeds.  And not many.  Luckily, I'm the only one who likes them.



More massacre-ing.



Now, he decides it's time to draw on the pumpkin.  Uh, buddy, you're about 25 cuts too late. 

AJ decided to give up on cutting, bite the bullet, touch the pumpkin, and start drawing.




Later in the evening, Dexter was showing of one of his 'contraptions'.  He likes to use things to make other things.  He's kind of crafty.  

Here he is on his stool-choo choo.

 Ahhhh, it brings back memories of my little brother.



And then, a late dinner (I'm trying to push it late for the time change).

I wanted to make Mummy-Dogs with the boys.  I couldn't figure out what we were doing wrong.  My mummies looked like cute little sleeping babies.




Little swaddled babies that I would be putting in the oven.


Yum.  Dexter only wanted the wiener and AJ only wanted the 'bun'.  And then, he didn't want any and asked for some broccoli and dip.  Crazy kid.





Later I realized why my mummies looked like babies.  I forgot to put the bandage around their heads.  Oops.


Thursday, October 29, 2009

More on My Ricky

Richard says he had a horrible sleep up every hour or so.  The bed isn't very comfortable.  And, he's already starting to feel sick.

His appointment was at 9am this morning, so he should be done by now.  I'll be giving him a call.

He got to have dinner at the Lodge.  He said it was 'institutional, but not as bad as the hospital'.



Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Some Richard News

I do have pics of Kim and Kareen's day with the boys today, but I'm not into loading pictures right now.


If you haven't read Richard's blog yet, then you may not know that they told Richard he could start his chemo Wednesday (today).  They also said that he'll be wearing a heart monitor of some sort, (I'm guessing a halter-monitor).  His heart's been racing a bit and 'feeling weird'.  Also, if I recall, his heart's given them a little scare before when he first started chemo back in June.

Kim came this morning with her friend Kareen at about 7:45am to watch the boys for the day.  I had left for work about an hour earlier.  Richard then was able to finish packing after a long night of 'preparing' for moving out.

He left the house about 11:30am, I'm guessing, as he arrived shortly after 1:00pm (stopping first at my work to drop off my cell which I had forgotten on the charger, and at his work I think) at the Cancer Lodge.  Just enough time to check in, say hello to his roommate (who I'm happy to report is a guy), and head for his 5 minute walk to the hospital to start his anti-nausea meds at 2pm, and then the chemo around 3pm.

I talked to him a few times today, on my way home from work.  Later when I was having him say goodnight to Dexter.  And again when he called to say goodnight.  He gave me some dates of some scans and such, which I have of course, forgotten.  I'm hoping he posts some more dates on his blog.

If you want to stay up to date on his progress, be sure to check his blog...

Richard's Blog


Monday, October 26, 2009

Fun Fun Fun Dip - And Not So Fun Fun Fun Drip




So, I think it was Aunt Elaine who said to 'turn the camera on yourself sometime'.  While cuddling with Dexter tonight right before his bedtime and contemplating updating the blog, I had Richard grab the camera.  Yup, that's me.



Firstly, Fun Dip!

AJ and I had a nice visit to the library today to take back our books and pick up our new ones.  We have three book bags.  One, is board books for Dexter.  AJ picks those out.  The second is AJ's 'readers' that are pre-K or level 1 style books that he can, for the most part, read himself, or with minimal help.  We were very excited to find Spiderman, X-Men, Superman, and Batman ones this time (although they were like level three, and he cannot read those) to take home.  Lastly, just regular stories that we read for bedtime each night.  So, as you can see, it's not very baby-conducive, and therefore, we left Dexter at home with Richard.  AJ, once again, was a lovely angel at the library.  I decided he was deserving of a very special treat!  

The elusive Fun Dip that Daddy brought home a couple months ago.  Don't get me wrong.  AJ's had candy before, but I've been hesitant to give him straight-up sugar, especially after seeing what two doughnuts can do to him.

I figured, he needed to be taught what to do.  This package came with two sticks and three flavours.  I put a bib on him. I showed him what to do. He tried it, but seriously, it took him a couple tries to really get the proper coating of sugary goodness on the stick.

Next, I brought Dexter to the table (this is about 20 minutes before dinner).  I didn't even get a chance to show him what to do!  He picked up the stick.  He licked it.  He stirred it around in the powder.  He licked off the powder.  It was sooo Dexter.


Friday's Fun Fun Fun

Auntie Jen was going to be away for a scrapbooking weekend.  No, I did not have her three kids for the weekend.  However, I did have them for a little over 2 hours running through dinnertime! Here's some of the dinnertime cheer!

Makenna and AJ sat at the coffee table on some stools, like we do for lunch.


The babies all sat at the table with Richard and I.

Richard does not look very impressed here, but truly, he was in good spirits.  That face is just probably his dismay at yet another crappy meal made by moi.  Seasoned chicken breast, cooked carrots, and some KD.



Saturday's Fun Fun Fun

Couldn't remember what I did this day until I got up to get a drink and my sore muscles reminded me.  

After getting my coffee this morning, my plan was to go on a grand nature walk, but AJ only wanted to go around our path out back (in hopes that his friends Emily and Claire would be home).  His friends weren't home, so we headed home to play in the backyard.  After some serious hockey, soccer, baseball, and lacrosse with AJ while Dexter sat in the Cozy Coupe, the boys played together and I raked leaves.  And more leaves, and more leaves, and more leaves.



Sunday's Fun Fun Fun

I took the boys to the pool for Loonie Swim this morning.  It cost me only $2 for me and the two boys to go swimming!  That was nice.  The boys had a great time.  I think Dexter went down the slide about 30 times, and he slipped on the pool deck about 4 times.  AJ spent most of the time seeing how many times he could make it around the very deep toddler pool by scaling the edge.  

In the evening, my mom and Ken came for a visit.  They brought doughnuts.  AJ was VERY excited.  He ate two.  And boy oh boy, did it show!  YIKES!



Richard -Not So Much Fun Fun Fun

Well, it appears as though Richard's fungal infection has spread to his liver.  Sounds scary, right?  Sounds alarming, right?  But no one seems very worried.  So, I guess I should just relax.  He's still on the anti-fungal drip.  Richard's saying that it's possible they may postpone the last round just a bit more, but he'll still move into the Cancer Lodge on Wednesday for two reasons.  One, the commute is wearing on him terribly.  Two, he doesn't want to lose his spot.

Otherwise, Richard has been wonderful as always.  He's really trying to 'get things taken care of' before he moves out.  The night that Jen's kids were over, he was so helpful.  Asking all the dreamy things every wife wishes their husband would ask like, "Just tell me if there's anything I can do to help" or "what do you need me to do next".  Ahhhhhh, yes, he truly is that wonderful.


Dishwashing Fun Fun Fun

I still have no dishwasher.  This handwashing is working out okay though. My counters are cleaner than usual.  Hmmm, odd.



Fun Fun Fun Movies

Richard has a habit of putting on 'not so child friendly' movies for AJ in the evening to watch bits of with him.

This is what AJ's been singing lately.  "Who you gonna call?  Ghostbusters!"

We've also been watching The NeverEnding Story.  I forgot that one gets a little scary!