Friday, September 11, 2009

Wednesday, Thursday, Friday

Wednesday

Thank goodness for good friends working together to make things work well.

Jen dropped off Makenna in the morning at our house on the way to work. Erica came later, dropped off Rya with me (for a playdate with Dexter), and in turn, took Makenna and AJ with her and Jack so she could take the three toddlers to 'preschool orientation'. Jack and AJ are at the same preschool as last year, and Makenna is there this year too.

The following three pictures are just before the big kids headed off with Auntie Erica.





Auntie Erica was kind enough to take and share pictures of the kids enjoying Orientation Day. Here are those pics.












While the big kids were away, the babies played really wonderfully together, mostly with the shape sorter, and later with the piggy bank that counts.





Thanks Erica for taking the kids to orientation!

******Richard was supposed to get his 'retry' on the needle in the back this day (with the guidance of an x-ray), but it got postponed until Thursday. His taste buds were already bothering him Wednesday morning.


Thursday

I worked this day, and Kim came over the night before so she could be my nanny this day which was going to work very well for the first real day of preschool for all the kids. This is just a crazy week for Erica, Jen, and I, in general (first week of school). For Kim too! She started university this week!!!

So, Kim had an early start to the day at around 6/6:30am when I headed to work. Jen dropped off Makenna with Kim on her way to work. Later, Erica came, dropped of Rya with Kim, and took Makenna, AJ, and Jack to preschool. Rya and Dexter played wonderfully for their playdate. Thanks Kim for doing that. Thanks Erica for the Frappe you brought back for Kim! Erica brought the toddlers back, picked up Rya from Kim, and left AJ and Makenna with Kim. Kim was watching Makenna and the boys for today. Thanks Kim!

Makenna and AJ played well and played downstairs a lot, leaving Kim some special time with Dexter.

Here are a couple pictures of crazy lunchtime with Kim. Dexter fell asleep at the table, so he is not present here.







BIG THANKS to Kim and Erica for helping Jen and I work that all out. I feel like breaking into a song about co-operation.

I had a long day at work, and came home to happy children who had eaten their dinner (thanks Kim) and leftovers for dinner for me! Thanks Kim! Richard and Norma came home shortly thereafter. It was a nice night. Kim stayed over a second night so she could just head to school the next day.

*****Richard had his needle in the back today. Wasn't as painful as the five attempts the day before when they hit a nerve, but it was still long, like 45 minutes and they had to switch to a different needle. He has some strong bones. He came home feeling pretty crappy yesterday. Suffice to say, he's sick now.


Friday

-I took the boys along with me to my brunch with my old (as in previous) sorority sisters. We try to get together once a month. Gosh darn it if the boys weren't angels for 2 hours for me!! I actually got to visit. Very nice.
BIG THANKS to my sorority sisters, Jen, Chrissy, and Jill for treating me breakfast today! Awwwww. Sweeties.
-Here's my funny AJ story. Remember a little while ago, I mentioned AJ saying that something wasn't fair. Like I was getting a coffee from Starbucks, but not him? Well today:
As we pull into the restaurant, AJ sees Starbucks, and he says,
"I would like a kid's hot cocoa with whip please mom".
I said, "Well, I'll tell you what. I brought your waters to drink at the restaurant, and when we're finished there, you can get a hot cocoa when I pick up my coffee."
During brunch, he says, "Actually, I think I want a drink from here instead of Starbucks. I really want an apple juice with no water." (I almost always water down his apple juice).
I say, "Are you sure? Wouldn't you rather have a lemonade or hot cocoa from Starbucks?"
He says, "No. I want an apple juice from here."
So, I order him and Dex an apple juice to split.
After brunch, I head to the Starbucks to get my coffee. He says,
"I would like a lemonade with a half shot of raspberry please."
I say, "Ummm, no, you said you wanted an apple juice at the restaurant. You get one special drink."
He says, "But that's not fair. How come you get a drink from the restaurant AND a Starbucks drink, but I don't?"
Obviously, I felt compelled to get him a drink (and Dexter's ice water).
I could've just said, "I'm the mommy", but frankly, I was impressed by his recent care for things to be 'fair'.


*****Richard's day was just a normal chemo day. He was surely sleepy. Dexter had a bunch of crazy wakings this morning. I think I was up with him 5 times from 3am to 6am. It was so weird. I may have been getting up with him, but it definitely woke Richard each time. Richard came home feeling pretty darned sick today. He was good enough to take AJ to wash his hands and brush his teeth before bed, but otherwise, was pretty well K.O.'d on the couch after getting home. Norma did some big time walking today from the hospital to Granville Island and back. I think she's going to be paying for that tomorrow!


I ended tonight by taking AJ with me to pick up some supplies for my classroom. He was a good boy for the venture and I treated him to some Gelato. He got cookies and cream called Strattachello or something like that. He loved it. He wouldn't stop talking about it the whole way home while he finished it off. I've never seen him love and appreciate the taste of something so much in his whole 3.5 years. "mmmmm, wow, this is soooo good mom" over and over again.






More Thanks to be Given

Norma - Thanks again for coming back to help for these couple weeks! It's a tremendous help and relief. I can't imagine how we would've worked this rough spot again without you.

Elva, Tony, and Family (Norma's cousin and her family) - Thanks so much for the beautiful card and the Costco gift card. It will be put to very good use! So thoughtful. I know you read this, so I'll also take this chance to say that Kadin is a handsome little doll!

Jess and Bev (Norma's cousin and her husband) - Thank you so much for lovely card and the monetary gift. This is just so kind of you. Thank you very much.

Continued thanks to everyone who continues to check in on how Richard is feeling and how we (our family) is doing through this. Thanks to everyone for continued well wishes, good vibes, thoughts, and prayers. It's been so helpful to have such an outporing of love from friends and family.

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Work, Wedding, Who?, Where?, When?, Why?, Whaaaaat???






Work

I can't believe I haven't updated you in a whole week. I was in at school last week for a couple days, getting set up. Spent some time getting some planning done yesterday, thanks to Richard giving me some 'me time' at Starbucks with just me, my coffee, and my 'homework'.

So I'll be working Wednesdays mostly (while my sister is the boys' nanny). Thursdays, I will work sometimes, but Auntie Erica will take the boys Thursdays, regardless. No excuse for an untidy house now with a whole day to myself on the days I'm not working!

Wedding

We had an outstanding time at my cousin, Lisa's, wedding. Great music, great food (including Butter Chicken), great company, beautiful wedding, and of course, dancing with Richard because my man dances.

Who?

How did we go to this wedding? Who did we leave our most precious baby boys with? My dad was away. My mom and my sister were at the wedding. Ken was at work. Norma was in Nova Scotia. Hmmmmm. Are you stumped?

My brother, Paul, and his friend, Brock. They were my "Mannies". I left my note with 'times', prepared food and labelled, taught them how to change a diaper (as they crossed their fingers for 'no poo'), gave them a key in case they wanted to go outside, and left those four boys (ages 1.5, 3.5, 15.9, and 16 years old) alone.

I came back to find, not only my children still alive, but having ate, napped, had fun, and...... my house seemed oddly tidier than when I had left.

My baby brother babysitting my babies. Awwww.


THANK YOU BROCK AND THANK YOU UNCLE PAUL. It was just so wonderful of you two to do this for us!

Where?

The Zoo. It's been a while, actually. While putting new batteries in the camera, Richar asked me why I'm taking the camera to the zoo, as I have many pictures of them at the zoo already. The simple answer: they are growing every day!! Sprouting, really. AJ asked me today why Dexter is taking so much longer to grow up than he is. I thought that was really neat to think about. AJ also told me a joke. It was a pun. My Starbucks is called 'Bakerview'. I was meeting Jen at Starbucks on the way to the zoo. I went to the wrong one (mine), and turned around to head to 'hers'. AJ said, "Oh, maybe we're now going to Baker-zoo Starbucks".

Here are some pics from the day.



















What a great day. Weather was perfect!

When?

Today! Norma arrived safely at the hospital from Nova Scotia. Her and Richard came home at around 8pm. She had been awake for almost 24hours! So great to have her back. Dexter was already in bed when she arrived, but AJ was awake and VERY excited! She'll be here for a couple weeks to help out during this next round of Chemo. Thanks for coming Norma!

Why?

Why do I let my 19 month old use markers?


AJ knows Dex is up to no good.


Awwww! Too cute! He knows he's been naughty!


Whaaaaaaaat?????

Richard started his next round of Chemo today and it was a really rough day. He was supposed to get his Lumbar Puncture and have some of the Cytarabine put into his spine today and then also through his Hickman Line.

FIVE TRIES!

Richard had to painfully sit through five attempts to pierce the bones in his back and at one point they hit a nerve (which Richard likens to be electrocuted).

What next? They try again tomorrow, but it will be a surgeon doing it with the assistance of an X-ray to guide him/her. Floroscopy?

Good grief.

Happy to have him home safe and sound, but really hard to know he had such a bad day. I'm regretting not having made sure to go with him.

These next two weeks will be rough on Richard. 5 more days of chemo (including tomorrow's Lumbar Puncture), then the horrible week or more that follows of him feeling absolutely yucky and drained. Then the road to recovery while having a compromised immune system. Then getting better, just in time to start his last round of chemo, I imagine (should all go smoothly) on October 6th or so.

Please send your good vibes/prayers/well wishes/thoughts a round of chemo that maybe doesn't suck so badly.

Love you Richard. I'll be giving you lots of hugs.


**** I'm pretty sure Richard has updated his blog tonight with a more in depth look into what went down today.

Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Some Thanks, Some Work, Some Pictures, Some Chemo, Some Update

Some Thanks

Richard's family (his dad's side)
-All got together to have a little shin dig in order to help us out and very graciously bestowed upon us a hefty amount of Superstore gift cards for our grocery shopping needs. Thanks to everyone, aunts, uncles, grandparents, great aunts, great uncles, cousins, second cousins, third cousins, eighth cousins twice removed, step cousins, half cousins, cousin It, Thing, ... oh wait.. wrong family.

Seriously though. Thank you. You have no idea how much this helps and is appreciated. Wow.

Michele D. (my colleague, friend, and Luv Muffin)
-Thank you for the gift cards: Earls, Milestones, AND Starbucks! And the really sweet magnet. I'm so sorry I missed you! I was at the playground with the boys! I wish I had gotten to see you. Soon, I hope.

Richard (that guy I love)
-Thanks for taking care of the boys today and tomorrow so I could go into work. (Normally, this would just be a normal part of life for Richard to be home with the boys alone for a day sometimes, but I know how exhausted he gets right now, so I'm sure this was a 'big day' for him). Thank goodness they both nap so you can get some rest. Thanks for nacho-dinner too. What a treat!
-Richard took the boys to a playground they'd never been to today too! AJ loves going to 'new' playgrounds.

Some Work
-Well, I'm back to work next week. A whopping once a week on Wednesdays. It's amazing how much there was to move to my new school (intermediate stuff - grade 6/7), and how much there was to take home (primary stuff - grade 1). I was in today doing all the moving in. Tomorrow, I'm in again, but this time sorting out the fiddly bits and getting my day plan ready for the first day of school.

Some Pictures
-Each August/September I like Richard and I to take the boys to the park to do some photos for my frames in the living room, and inevitably for the grandparents. I figure, in the future, I'll only be doing formal pictures of the boys around their birthdays, and doing pictures at the end of summer, puts them both in and around the 'half a year older' point. So, here are some of my favourite pictures at the park of Dexter just past 1.5 years old and AJ at almost 3.5 years old.

















Some Chemo
-Richard will start his 2nd round of "consolidation chemotherapy" (3rd round of chemo thus far) on Tuesday, September 8th, as he mentioned in his blog yesterday. Norma will arrive in town that day, meet Richard at the hospital, and come back to stay with us again for a couple weeks to help out while Richard will be back and forth to VGH all the time. If all goes well (ie. no fever), he hopefully won't have to go every day for two weeks straight like last time.
-On Tuesday, Richard will be getting his previously postponed Lumbar Puncture. At which point, they will be injecting some of the lovely chemo drugs into his spine to kill off any naughty cells that may be lingering in his brain stem, I believe. Yuck.
-I imagine he will start feeling crappy on Thursday or Thursday night. We'll see.
-To remind those of you who like the timeline of events...
Tuesday, September 8- Sunday, September 13th
- Six days in a row of getting Cytarabine.
Monday, September14th - Monday, September 21st or later
- Numbers diving down, transfusions, platelets, feeling horrible.
September 22nd or later - October 7th or so
- Getting better, numbers going up, then starting to feel better, then starting to taste things properly again.
October 8th or so
-The last round (hopefully) begins.

As for how Richard's doing right now:
He's feeling great. He's starting to lose more hair. I didn't realize that the hair comes out so late after the chemo. He's lost most of his eyelashes now, some leg hair, and his eyebrows are on their way out. I gave him the 'okay' to shave off what was barely left of his goatee and mustache a week or so ago, that I love so much. You can imagine how different he looks! Still cute as ever though and his face is soft as a baby's bottom. Although the goatee and mustache seem to be fighting their way back.

Some Update

Dexter
-He's signing 'carrot' now too. And, what? There was something he said or signed yesterday. Can't remember now. Sorry Dexy! I haven't been writing on the calendar. He's been full of hugs and kisses. He loves his phones. He loves riding the cards and the scooter. My Chunky D (I'm going to have to revise that term of endearment soon). What a guy!

AJ
-Taken a big interest in reading this week. Sounding out words like crazy and knows quite a few sight words now. He's been reading me some books. Not memorized, but using sight words he knows and sounding out others. He's quite proud of himself. He's been full of hugs and kisses more than usual too. My Cheeky Monkey. What a guy!